For a long time, I felt unlovable. I could only see the flaws that I firmly believed defined who I was always going to be. I allowed for plenty of people to undervalue my worth and I gave a lot of myself in order to please others. At the time, I never realized how much of my self love I was sacrificing in order to be looked at in the best way by various others. After a lot of soul searching and tears, I reached a point that I knew that I needed to change those views. I learned one of the most valuable lessons about being in love with myself. Loving yourself is probably one of the greatest treats you can afford in life.